Damaged Goods

N8 and I had our very first ultrasound last week! It was on Nathan's leg. His right leg, with particular focus on his Achilles tendon.

But let me back up...

Over a month ago, on a fateful Thursday night, The Bear decided to play a 9pm pick-up game of volleyball at the church building. I'm an old lady who goes to bed early, so I wished him a good time and got ready for bed. He hopped in his zippy little car and was off to the game.

Since I wasn't there, the following details are based on several eye-witness accounts of The Event: It was a busy night at the church building. There was a volleyball net and a volleyball, and a throng of people gathered on the court. The ball was served. Points were scored.

N8's team lost 3 games in a row, and was lining up to lose a fourth. All of a sudden, the volleyball sailed over the net, headed toward N8. He stepped back to volley the serve back across the net, and... WHAM! According to the victim, "It felt like someone kicked me in the back of the leg."

The ball fell to the floor. N8 started rubbing his leg and glaring at his teammates, wondering who delivered the blow. No confessions were made. (Future details would reveal that N8 had not, in fact, been kicked by someone.) The Bear continued rubbing, and when the pain wouldn't subside, he hobbled off the court. In the end, a friend had to drive him home.

I learned of the injury the next morning, when I woke Nathan up to take me to work and he informed me that he was unable to drive. Over the course of the next week, the signs of the injury became evident. His leg swelled from knee to toe, blood pooled visibly in his ankle, and there was bruising.

It was nasty.

Gentle nagging from his mom sent N8 to the doctor's office a week after the injury. The doctor diagnosed a tear in his calf muscle and sent him to the physical therapist. But the therapist disagreed, believing the Achilles tendon was damaged. She suggested an MRI. Bickering ensued between the doctors, the nagging (/hysterical) calls from mom increased exponentially, and N8 finally got an appointment with an Orthopedic specialist.

At the Ortho appointment last week, the PA and the surgeon also disagreed about the source of the injury. One said Achilles, one said the muscle. They scheduled an ultrasound of his leg. They also insisted on crutches and a boot for The Bear. (Insert small victory for the B-wife, who had been nagging about the need for crutches since week 1.)

Last Friday we went in for the ultrasound. Wednesday we sat down with the Ortho surgeon again. Results indicate a partial tear of the Achilles. Since it's not a full tear (called a rupture) N8 won't need surgery. But he will spent three more weeks with all these aides:

Then he will move to just this:

His boot has three risers in the heel which keep the weight off of the injured area. Over the course of six weeks, we will gradually remove the three wedges, and then the boot itself. After that, N8 will start a couple months (or more?) of physical therapy.

Thus it will be early September before N8 is out of the boot, and he will finish PT sometime around the holidays.

Endnotes:

1) The folks at Hope Orthopedics are awesome. Efficient, funny, very knowledgeable... Couldn't ask for a better Ortho team for my Bear.

2) I'm not worried about the injury. N8 is strong, healthy, and indomitable...

3) But I am worried about N8 getting back to work. His job will start again the end of August, when he will still be strapped into the boot and (technically) unable to drive. I can't drive him to work because (a) I don't even drive myself to work, and (b) his office is in Independence. So... ?!?!?!

4) N8 had a lot of goals for this summer, all of which are dashed to pieces. He's bummed. I'm bummed. Some goals were pure fun, like going hiking, and a camping trip with his best friend(s). Some of them were productive goals -- namely yard work and house work. A big goal for the summer was to remodel one of the bedrooms and turn it into a nursery. (The room needs new windows, insulation in the walls, and new drywall... In all, it's a complete overhaul. We have the funds to buy supplies, but not enough to hire someone else to do the work, hence frustration with Bear's brokenness.)

5) It's hard taking care of an injured boy and so many the household responsbilities.